My dad always tells me, “A good soldier always looks forward, Bub, and you’re a good soldier.” Basically, don’t worry about the past and focus on the future.

It’s hard to do that sometimes when a Facebook memory pops up. Good or bad, we get a little glimpse into our past. Depending on the post, I might delete the memory altogether, especially if some of the links are bad.

Four years ago today, a memory popped up that sadly I feel still happens A LOT. Not just to me, but lots of us.

Can you relate?

DECEMBER 13, 2017
Raise your hand if you feel like people criticize you for what you do or who you are? Are you ever guilty of trying to win the approval of others – maybe at work, at home or within your circle of friends?

I’ve been there a time or two, but read a little something this morning that reminded me to brush of those people and focus on something else:

“In scripture, many times people would come against Jesus and criticize Him. Many times it says, “Jesus answered them not a word.”

He simply didn’t respond to His critics. He didn’t try to convince them to change their minds. He didn’t get upset because somebody was talking about Him. No, He just ignored it.

When people come against you and they’re jealous, trying to make you look bad, trying to discourage you, remember you’re in good company! Jesus was probably criticized more than anyone else. I love the fact that He didn’t try to explain Himself. He didn’t try to make everyone understand Him. He just stayed focused on what He was called to do. He simply ran His race.

Friend, Jesus set the example for you and me. We don’t have to try to win the approval of others. We have to understand that not everyone is going to understand us. Our focus should be on following God’s leading and let Him order our steps. The next time someone criticizes you, remember the example of Jesus. Overlook it, don’t get offended, and keep moving forward in the destiny God has for you!”

Be kind to each other, even when it’s hard. You’ll be better off in the long run

Aunt Bubba